Saturday, April 19, 2008

Reactive - Proactive Mindsets

Reactive Language ---------Proactive Language

There's nothing I can do-------Let's look at our alternatives

That's just the way I am------ I can choose a different approach

He makes me so mad----------I can control my own feelings

They won't allow that---------I can create an effective presentation

I have to do that ------------I will choose an appropriate response

I can't------------- I choose

I must ------------I prefer
I only ------------I will

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